Involving Outside Voices

Sometimes you just can’t see eye to eye with someone so it’s helpful to bring in some people who can help you work through it. They may help your friend see their error, or they may help you realize you’re actually the problem! Start with people who are already part of the situation, but you may need a trusted mutual friend, a mentor, a pastor, or a professional counselor… submit yourself to objective and safe people who can help you navigate tension in a healthy way. But watch out, you better be ready to listen to what they say!